Children with Autism are at greater risk of being bullied: By, Dr. Claudio V. Cerullo
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It is not unusual to hear stories about students with and without
hidden disabilities of being bullied. Stories about bullying have
captured media attention as children attempt to cope with being bullied
and as families attempt to adjust to losing a loved one to suicide
motivated by being bullied. The reality in today’s school setting is
that students on the autism spectrum are bullied more often than
students without disabilities. In fact, of the students who are bullied,
roughly 62.3% are on the autism spectrum (Center for Disease Control,
2011). Regardless of the outcome associated with bullying and whether
the student has a disability or not, bullying is a serious and systemic
problem that must be addressed in schools all over the world.
Bullying involves the repeated harmful and frequent actions toward an individual or a group. It is also
involves
high intensity and a power-base. It is brought on when someone is
perceived to have a weakness, a challenge, or a difference that may
serve to both isolate them and to make them a target for harmful acts.
Bullying often occurs in front of or includes others, and witnesses
(usually the bystanders), can play an important role in increasing or
decreasing bullying, if they choose.
There are various forms of bullying, including verbal, physical, emotional, and the deadly cyber
virus,
which is growing area for bullying in which Facebook, instant gram,
email, Twitter, and other forms of social media are used to spread
unkind and often untruthful information about students. While social
networking can be a great resource to connect people; it can and has
been used in a harmful manner to ostracize and exclude others.
The
impact of bullying can be significant and can include lowered
self-esteem, heightened anxiety, depression, fear, refusal to attend
school, isolation, suicidal ideation, and suicide. Sometimes the signs
are apparent, and at other times, individuals try to mask or hide their
reaction to the bullying. Involved professionals and family members may
notice decreases in grades, an inability of the child to concentrate, a
loss of interest in academic skills, school avoidance and higher rates
of absenteeism, and ultimately the desire to dropout. Families and
professionals should be aware of behavior changes that may indicate a
student is being bullied. For example, if a child or adolescent refuses
to go to school, it may be an indicator that s/he is being bullied and
does not feel safe at school or trust those that are hired to protect
them.
For students on the autism spectrum, bullying may be difficult to
detect and understand. Because of theory of mind challenges and social
skill deficits, these students become more vulnerable targets for
bullying. Theory of mind differences result in difficulties grasping the
intentions of others and understanding what others are really feeling
and thinking. In terms of social skills, individuals with autism have
difficulty reading nonverbal cues, including body language and the
facial expressions of others. In addition, they may take comments
literally
instead of understanding the underlying and perhaps unkind
message. Many may have difficulty detecting the difference between
teasing and bullying. As such, learners on the spectrum may over- or
under-react when perceived or real bullying happens.
In addition to the emotional and social toll on students and their
families, bullying is becoming a growing area for litigation. Schools
must seriously investigate any complaints of bullying made by parents or
students. If the student has a disability, bullying could be denying a
student his or her free and appropriate education or (FAPE), under the
IDEA law.
While bullying often impacts individual students, programs must be designed school-wide. School-wide
anti-bullying
programs should be conducted that focus broadly on teaching tolerance
and understanding, and creating a safe school environment, overall.
Current research clearly shows that proactively providing strategies and
supports within the context of the school culture can decrease or
minimize the need to reactively respond to incidents (National Crime
Prevention Council, 2011). District and building leadership must
demonstrate an absolute intolerance for bullying and the entire school
community must understand and support this mission. Below are several
suggestions:
Create a school-wide no-bullying policy that clearly describes the
various forms of bullying, outlines safeguard procedures to be followed
when bullying occurs, and articulates consequences. This policy should
be shared with parents, and parents should be encouraged to discuss the
policy with their children, with or without, an autism spectrum disorder
(ASD). The policy should be revisited frequently with students and
posted in various areas of the school. The important piece here, it that
it get evaluated quarterly.
Address anti-bullying as part of your school-wide positive behavior support program. Establish rules
and
post these throughout school. Rules should not be stated simply in
negative terms (telling students what not to do), but should tell
students how they are to act. Often times, rules are stated using
abstract terms, such as, “Respect Others.” Be tangible and measurable,
in order help students understand what respect does or does not look
like. Teach what respectful behavior looks like, teach how to be
respectful, and teach others how to respond to behavior that is not
respectful. Again, the key here is, to establish a district-wide
Antibullying team or outside provider that is objective in his or her
evaluation, so that it can be EVALUATED and assessed quarterly.
Highlight
students who have exhibited acceptance toward classmates.
Staff should acknowledge random act of kindness by posting notices in
central locations. Staff can also distribute reward cards to students
when they notice students
treating classmates in a positive fashion.
As a school, identify social skills that are important to focus on. For example, many students lack
problem-solving,
negotiation, anger management, and conflict resolution skills. Choose a
social skill of the month. Rehearse with students and continually
coach throughout the month. All district staff should also remember to
be a positive role model for these social skills. Hold meetings in
which bullying is
discussed. Allow students to provide examples and
discuss how it felt to be bullied. Make sure students know the
consequences for bullying. At the same time, make sure they also
understand the importance of establishing positive relationships.
Most school districts collect school-wide behavioral data. If there are times or areas of the school where
bullying
is more likely to occur, develop a staff safety plan for adult
supervision. If recess, passing periods, bus rides, or certain classes
are more problematic, work with staff in those areas to identify the
signs of bullying. Often times, students are very discrete and bullying
may be hard to detect. Work with staff on strategies and a plan of
action. If unstructured times of the day are more problematic, it may
mean that more staffing is required during those times.
Create information about cyberbullying that can be sent home to family members and given to
students.
Students need to understand that technology allows us to maintain a
permanent record. It may be necessary to establish rules for the use of
personal technology in the school.
Bullies seek power and attention from bystanders. Empower peers to take action to stop bullying events
by
teaching them how to seek help, distract a bully, and advocate on
behalf of the target of a bully. Layout a process they can follow if
bullying escalates. Make sure bystanders feel safe reporting students
and that confidentiality is respected.
For specific students on the autism spectrum who are potential victims of bullying, I would suggest
the following:
Help students on the autism spectrum clearly discern what bullying is and is not. For some students
on
the autism spectrum, it will be helpful to explain in concrete terms
since this is HOW THEY THINK on what bullying is by providing specific
and concrete examples that do and do not depict bullying. Through the
use of social narratives, role playing and coaching, individuals can be
presented with real life concrete examples of bullying and teasing, and
helped in learning the difference. Realize that it is difficult for many
with and without ASD to understand true intentions of others, thus they
become afraid and lose trust. However, for
students on the spectrum, it is critical that they clearly understand the differences.
When bullying does occur, a safe person or safe place should be
identified for students on the autism spectrum to access quickly. Write
out and/or illustrate procedures that students should follow if they
believe they are being bullied or if they are in a situation in which
they feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Provide opportunities
for students
to practice the procedures at various times. It might be helpful to
provide a small procedure card for the student to carry in their wallets
or book bags. Another key to safety is to create a community of
friends around the student. Students have the potential to become
greater victims when they are isolated in the student body. Making sure
they are connected to others through informal or formal means may
increase their safety. If the hallway or bus stop is problematic, assign
other students to be a hall buddy with the person with ASD. The same
can be done on the school bus, where bulling is often not reported or
documented affectively.
Bullying can heighten child’s anxiety, and cause them to feel unsafe,
and thus hinder academic performance. All students, including those on
the autism spectrum, have a right to feel safe, feel good about who they
are, and get the BEST possible education our teachers can offer them at
school. Each of us has a role in making our school a safe and caring
environment that fosters learning and positive
social-emotional relationships.